Kiki writes,

Hi there! It’s so exciting to be at the College. It’s so different from High School, and everyone has been so nice to me. One of the many changes has to do with wearing panties. In high school, the girls were required to wear panties, or at least a thong, even with an outfit where panties are not needed, and even if panties don’t really go with the outfit. When the weather was warm, I liked to wear just a top, and, of course, the mandatory thong. Here’s one of my favorite high school outfits.

One of my favorite high school outfits

Now, here’s my question: The thing I love about this top is how sexy I feel when I’m wearing it, and the thong can’t be seen from behind, giving it a cheeky look.  I know a thong isn’t allowed here at the College.  But this top is so short that I would be scared to wear it to class without something under it.  On the other hand, the whole appeal of this outfit is that it’s so short — that’s what makes it sexy!

To help you understand my problem, I’m enclosing a picture of me wearing this top without panties, which I would prefer you not publish, because it’s a little embarrassing.

My favorite sexy top, worn in accordance with the College Dress Code

Answer:  Dear Kiki,

You have nothing to be embarrassed about, so we went ahead and published your picture.  You need to look within your heart, Kiki, to truly understand how you feel about this cute little dress, and how it relates to your natural sense of modesty.  You mentioned that when you were in high school, you wore a thong because it was required as part of your dress code.  Did you wear the thong for any other reason?  For example, did the thong help you feel more comfortable wearing such a short dress?  If so, then maybe your sense of decency is challenged solely by the length of this dress, regardless of whether or not you wear anything under it.  This is exactly why we require girls not to wear anything under their dresses: we want you to feel comfortable with the dress itself.

I’m a bit troubled by something else you said, Kiki.  You hinted at being a little annoyed that your high school made you wear a thong when it didn’t go with the outfit.  Do you think the thong goes with this outfit?  Look carefully at the two pictures you sent us.  You look cute in both pictures, but I think you’ll agree you look just a little cuter in the second one!

You mentioned being “scared” to wear this dress in public.  It’s natural to have a bit of a tingly feeling when you go out in public wearing a really cute outfit.  And a freshman girl who is used to wearing panties might feel awkward or even slightly aroused with nothing but a gentle breeze between her legs.  This is all quite normal.  It’s even OK to be a bit scared.

But is there more to your fear than just being “scared”?  Ask yourself: what am I really scared of?  It’s a tough question.  Some girls are simply scared of having another student see her pussy.  If that’s your fear, then set it aside, because none of your coed classmates are wearing panties either.  Just look up any stairway on campus, and tell me what you see.  Look at the girls sitting on the wall outside the dining hall, or the ones sitting “Indian style” on the grass in the Commons.  No one is really bothering to notice your pussy, so you can put that fear out of your mind.

But there is another fear some girls have that is a bit more serious.  A girl may become aroused by the feeling of nudity associated with not wearing underwear, especially when she feels her pussy is visible to other students.  A visibly aroused pussy is a violation of the Code of Conduct, of course, so a girl in this condition might also be worried about being raped by a nearby boy to punish her for displaying herself in such a disgraceful way.  It’s not fair, is it?  But rapes happen, it’s a fact of College life, and you should try to make the best of it.  Some girls find it more exciting to be raped in the nude, so if you are about to be raped, think about removing your clothes, or letting your rapist remove them.  Try to complete your sexual satisfaction during the rape itself, or immediately afterwards, before putting your clothes back on.  Often, you will find your classmates eager to help you reach orgasm.  Once you have climaxed, you will find that you are less susceptible to arousal, so this problem is self-limiting.

Not keen to be raped in public?  Many girls feel the same way.  If your roommate is a girl, you might enjoy cuddling with her in the morning before you put on your clothes.  If you both climax during this intimate activity, then you will be less likely to experience unwanted arousal later in the day.  If your roommate is a boy, you can have sex with him, or even better, it might be exciting to go bottomless to breakfast, and let him bring you to orgasm (or leave you teetering on the edge of orgasm) in public, where he can put on a show of raping you for the benefit of onloookers.  Many girls find this exciting.

So, in summary, Kiki, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this dress, and if you want to wear it, you should wear it.  If we’ve touched on any of your fears, then we hope you are feeling more at ease after reading our response to your very insightful question!