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I was so proud of my son. He brought his girlfriend to our party. She’s beautiful and sweet, but she was also shy and innocent. Being in a strange family setting is always difficult for the outsider. My son escorted his girlfriend around the corner of the room to make her more comfortable. No pressure for her to join the party if she was uncomfortable. Before we knew it, my son must have relaxed the poor girls apprehensions, for she entered the party completely naked. What a beautiful young woman, too. I’m so proud of my son for calming this girl’s fears that she was comfortable just being herself at our party.
My little man is growing up to be quite a gentleman! He brought his lady over for the party. She seemed nice, but she was a bit nervous. My boy walked her away and talked to her for a bit.
When he came back alone, I was a bit nervous, but soon enough, she came around, completely naked. What a hot little lady, too. I’m so proud of my son for calming this lady’s apprehensions that she was comfortable just being herself at our party.
My little man is growing up to be quite a gentleman! He brought his lady over for the party. She seemed nice, but she was a bit nervous. My boy walked her away and talked to her for a bit.
When he came back alone, I was a bit nervous, but soon enough, she came around, completely naked. What a hot little lady, too. I’m so proud of my son for calming this lady’s apprehensions that she was comfortable just being herself at our party.
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Why are so many people shy to show themselfes as they are? Well we are raised to think that nudity is bad and has to be avoided.
When we were little children we did not care about clothes. If it is summer or bath time, off they go.
Then partens, teachers and classmates teach us that being nude is bad and that someone who is seen naked is “the loser of society” and to be laughed down by everyone. On the extreme side some folks thing only in black and white. Categorizing everything in either “fully clothed” or bad and demonizing the latter.
This mindset has been passed down from generation to generation.
Then telling an adolescent that it is okay to be nude now, puts her world upside-down.
The reason behind that is simple: It is taught that nudity equals sex and sex with minors is forbitten so nudity is forbitten. But that is wrong. There is a difference between nudity and sex. And there is nothing wrong with being nude. I mean: do you keep your clothes on at all times even when taking a bath? No you don’t. Does it hurt to take them of? No it doesn’t.
I do not want you to take off all your clothes immediatly and go to work in the nude the next day – no! I just want you to not be offendet if you see someoneelse in the nude.
And then we come to the point, where this someoneelse is not affraid of being nude. Because he is accepted equally to wearing whatever fashoin style strikes him.
Yes, everyone bathes naked, but we wear “bathing suits” to go swimming or hangout at the pool or beach. There was a time when swimming wore bathing outfits that covered them from the ankles up. Finally, some sanity set in, and men wore trunks and women a modest one-piece. It didn’t take long for the women to start wearing bikinis.
I grew up when girls wore bikinis nearly all summer. Women tended to wear one-piece suits. Those women wearing two piece suits were often held in low regard by the prudish.
Today, women of all ages wear bikinis without a second thought. Thongs are popular. G-strings, not so much, but more and more. Whether in private backyards or on vacations, women are getting much more comfortable showing more and more.
The Topfreedom and #FreeTheNipple campaigns are making some place easier for women to go topless, especially when tanning. Some might only wear a tiny patch between their legs supported by strings.
It won’t be long before people view it as silly to even bother with such a tiny covering. Times do change. It will take some a lifetime to accept the changes. And you are right, accepting that others can strip down is the first step. Why should someone’s modesty be thrusted upon someone else’s body?
It is not the naked flesh, but the minds and behaviors of others.